Post-Shot Routine: Control Emotions, Learn Quickly, and Stay Focused

Use a post-shot routine to reset after mistakes, separate mental from physical errors, and stay curious instead of critical so frustration doesn’t derail your round.

Key Points

  • Don’t Let Frustration Spiral
    One bad shot can lead to another if emotions aren’t managed — this is how players end up on the "bogey train."
  • Use a Post-Shot Routine
    A consistent routine helps reset mentally and emotionally after every shot, reducing negative carryover.
  • Ask: Was It Mental or Physical?
    Always evaluate what went wrong:Mental error: poor decision-making, lack of commitment, or negative thoughts.Physical error: execution breakdown, poor lie, or technique issue.
  • Learn from the Result
    Replace criticism with curiosity. Ask: What did I learn? not Why did I mess up?
  • Example: Misjudging the Lie
    In this case, the ball went left due to rough catching the clubface — part physical, part mental (misread the lie).
  • Leave the Shot Behind
    Once you've learned from it, take a breath, put the club away, and move on. The goal isn’t to be fake-positive — it’s to be process-focused and forward-thinking.
  • Emotions Are Normal, But Time Matters
    It’s not about avoiding emotion, but limiting how long it controls your focus and body language.
  • “Be Curious, Not Critical”
    One of the most important takeaways: curiosity leads to learning; criticism leads to frustration.
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